| Posted By tacoX on 10/12/04 @ 5:23:03 PM |
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Im just asking this for the 'older' GamingVoid crowd... Lets say your dating a girl, and you guys decide to take it to the 'next level'. If she says there were 2, 3, 4, 5 (or more) guys before you, would you bail? What is your limit... If I was dating someone, and she told me she has been with anything under 4 guys, I wouldnt care. After that, its just getting a bit too slutty.... I dont know, It would be a hard choice. What about you? |
| Posted By logic on 10/12/04 @ 6:00:25 PM |
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My girl and I were both virgins before we met, the fact that we gave ourselfs 'untouched' to eachother was something pretty fucking cool. All of my sexual discoveries have been with her, and her mine, and were still together (getting married nov. 1st, 2005) I dont know if I could really answer this, it's hard for me to put myself in a position where i'm not with my girl, but if i was, I dont know that i could be with someone who had already given themselves away. I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, i guess. What I get for being old |
| Posted By ZBomber on 10/12/04 @ 7:15:37 PM |
Whats the span of time? Week, month, year, more? 
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| Posted By TMaC on 10/12/04 @ 8:25:40 PM | ||
Ya, that matters a lot. I think I would go for 3 to 5 or less for the most part, but it depends on the person sometimes. It is a tough choice. |
| Posted By Scoogen on 10/12/04 @ 8:47:39 PM |
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Age is also a big factor. Now if this girl is 15 and she's been with 5 or 6 other guys, that's a bit excessive. Now, if she's 21 and only been with 4 other guys, that might be a one up for you. If you plan to move to the next step, make sure you two are both pretty serious. I'm old-fashioned like good old Logic, and tend to let the girl decide on when the time is right. Because we all know that we would be fine with it the night after we started going out. So really, it's all on her. If she feels the time is right, I would suggest taking it before she leaves you for some deush that will take it. Oh, by the way, girls can sometimes be fucking crazy... All wanting to take the next step one moment, and then "I don't like you that way" the next. Be sure she is sincere before you do anything stupid. |
| Posted By lincolnluxor on 10/13/04 @ 1:17:51 PM |
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Doesn't bother me any... ever... just have to inspect that shit/get it tested before you do anything. My g/f is currently my 11th and I'm her 9th. You learn just not to give a shit after a while. What they did in the past... is their buisness, not mine. What I did in my past, is my buisness, not theirs. Testing that shit doesn't cost much people, and you don't want to fall into something with teeth |
| Posted By tacoX on 10/13/04 @ 1:19:38 PM |
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Well, what would you say is an acceptable amount per year after... 15? For example, if they are 16 - 2 times?, 17 - 3 times? 18 - 4 times? Now, my ex-girlfriend who is 16 now, was with 2 other guys. My current girlfriend who is 17 was with other guys, but im not sure how many. Im just wondering if enough is enough... |
| Posted By TMaC on 10/13/04 @ 3:31:27 PM | ||
It should be fine unless she is a slutty person. Just makes sure she values you. If she does and you like her, nothing else show really matter. |
| Posted By American_Guerrilla on 10/15/04 @ 5:03:15 PM |
| taco i never thought u'd be so scared. and congrads logic. and it depends on the girl. personnally i'd disregard her. |
| Posted By tacoX on 10/15/04 @ 10:14:06 PM | ||
Im not scared, im just asking an opinion. Its not like she had STDs or anything, but im just wondering. I mean when you have a girl grinding on you, in most cases you dont really care how many times. You just remember to wear protection. |
| Posted By American_Guerrilla on 10/16/04 @ 7:03:19 PM |
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that's always important... and if ur not scared to of how many is too much, why u asking us? |
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